When You Know Better, Do Better

Posted by | July 27, 2017 | Blog, Brave Mom Decisions, Child, Inspiration | No Comments

A friend shared her feelings of guilt with me about her almost five-year-old child’s recent dental appointment. Several cavities, two teeth to be capped, and a stern talking-to from the dentist for mom. The dentist asked, “Who is helping him brush his teeth?” She said her boy had been able to do it on his own since he turned three. “Nope,” the doctor said, “kids need an adult to brush their teeth for them, twice daily, until they are at least six years old!” I immediately felt myself flush with dreaded mom guilt. My girl was nearly three at the time, and while I brushed for her in the evening, I was allowing her to brush her teeth herself each morning. My friend and I agreed that we were only trying to encourage our littles to be capable and independent, but we were putting them at risk for tooth decay. Talk about a #momfail! But as Maya Angelou said: “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”